How to Communicate with AI Lesson 7 of 20
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Part 2 - Building Skill

7. Set Length and Tone

Goal: Control how long and how formal the answer is.

Length and tone are two dials you can set explicitly. Without them, the AI picks a default that is often too long and too neutral. State the length in concrete terms and describe the tone you want.

Concrete length beats vague length: 'in 50 words' or 'in 3 sentences' works better than 'briefly'. For tone, name it: friendly, formal, playful, reassuring, direct.

The Script (Template)

[Task]. Length: [about N words / N sentences]. Tone: [friendly / formal / playful].

Worked Example

You write
Write a message telling a friend I'll be 20 minutes late. Length: 2 sentences. Tone: warm and relaxed, not apologetic or dramatic.
AI replies (sample)
Hey! Running about 20 minutes behind - grab us a table and order me whatever looks good. See you soon!
Why it works
The 2-sentence limit kept it short and the 'warm, not apologetic' tone stopped the AI from over-apologising, which is its common default.

Do & Avoid

Tips

  • Use word or sentence counts, not 'short' or 'long'.
  • If an answer is too long, reply 'Cut it in half' instead of rewriting your prompt.

Common Mistakes

  • Saying 'briefly' and being surprised by four paragraphs.
  • Forgetting tone for messages to real people, so they sound robotic.

Practice

  • Take one answer and re-request it at three lengths: 1 sentence, 50 words, 200 words.
  • Write one message in a formal tone and the same in a playful tone.
Teacher Notes Suggested: 15 min

Learning objectives

  • Students set explicit length and tone.
  • Students use follow-ups to adjust length quickly.

Talking points

  • Contrast 'briefly' with 'in 2 sentences' live.
  • Show the 'cut it in half' follow-up trick.

Answer key / what good looks like

  • Three-length versions should differ clearly in size, same core content.
  • Tone versions should read noticeably differently.

Discussion questions

  • Why does the AI default to long, and when is that a problem?